When you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins. (Mark 11: 25)

Is there anything between you today? Perhaps you’re still hurting from words of the past. Frustration over a recent argument. Betrayal from a broken promise. Disappointment from unmet hopes and expectations. Rejection as jobs, families, or friends compete for your spouse’s attention.

You’re wounded by their lust, anger, or selfishness. You’re trying to be patient, but resentment is building each day.

Unforgiveness divides both your marriage and your relationship with God. You can’t ask for his mercy if you keep it from each other. Take your pain and frustration to God in prayer. Ask for compassion and understanding. Depend on him to make peace in your home. Trust him to help your spouse grow and change. Call on him for humility to see your own need for forgiveness.

Today, lay down what you’re holding against each other. Start again, giving the grace you’ve received through Jesus.

Lord, help us to forgive each other today.
Let us show the mercy you’ve shown to us.
Give us a fresh start as we let go of the past.
Amen.

May this devotion help us be grace extenders and not grudge holders in our marriages!