• #18: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 7 & 8)

    #18: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 7 & 8)

    Tip 7 – Keep adult conversations for adults Young children can pick up bits of adult conversations and then worry about situations they do not fully understand. Even if our work situation is dire, or our finances are in a critical state, it is best to discuss them when the children are out of earshot.…

  • #17: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 5 & 6)

    #17: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 5 & 6)

    Tip 5 – Think about how you praise Praising our children – for working hard, for making progress, for trying something new, for being a part of a team or for simply taking part in a competition – gives them a healthy sense of achievement and encourages them not to define success by having to…

  • #16: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 4)

    #16: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 4)

    Tip 4 – Help your children to have a healthy view of success and failure We can take the sting out of failure by talking about our own mistakes and showing that life still goes on. Our children’s mistakes are disappointing for them, even painful, but we must not allow failure to equal shame. Also,…

  • #15: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 3)

    #15: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 3)

    Tip 3- Talk to children about their fears Creating natural opportunities for good communication is a part of healthy family life. Among the other benefits, they enable us to draw out from our children what is worrying them. Sometimes they will tell us exactly what is causing them anxiety and we can reassure them we…

  • #14: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 2)

    #14: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress (Tip 2)

    Tip 2: Create enough space for relaxationHealthy eating, healthy sleeping and healthy play all contribute to reducing stress in a child’s life. Making time to be with your children each day is emotionally reassuring to them, especially when they are little. According to one organization that deals with stress in childhood “a two-year old child…

  • #13: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress

    #13: Helping Our Children Cope With Anxiety And Stress

    Are there ways we can protect our children from unhealthy levels of stress? Can we help them to handle stress well in a stress-driven culture? As parents we can and we must, not least through our example, as they will absorb what we model. So, the following tips are as much for us as for…

  • #46: Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff

    #46: Don’t Sweat The Small Stuff

    Be of the same mind toward one another. (Romans 12:16)Your spouse leaves the dishes in the sink after promising to clean them up, and there is nothing clean to eat on when dinnertime rolls around. Your spouse is supposed to pick up the dry cleaning and doesn’t, leaving you without an article of clothing you…

  • #45: Coming Out Of Hiding

    #45: Coming Out Of Hiding

    There is a time to keep silence, and a time to speak. (Ecclesiastes 3:7)“Nothing’s wrong. It really doesn’t matter!” – these are classic lines from a person who hides feelings of hurt, irritation, and unmet needs, but who settles inside with pain or anger. Rather than “cause problems” or risk rejection, the “hider” seeks to…

  • #44: Lifting Up Your Spouse As A Person Of Great Worth

    #44: Lifting Up Your Spouse As A Person Of Great Worth

    He who humbles himself will be exalted. (Luke 14:11)It feels great to have someone – a friend, a family member – view you as a person of great worth. To have such a promise of exaltation from the Lord is tremendous. But to be valued as important by one’s spouse may be the highest exaltation…

  • #43: Yielding to Others for Their Benefit

    #43: Yielding to Others for Their Benefit

    Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. (Ephesians 5:21)Deferring to another means that my heart is yielded to the Holy Spirit’s work. It means that I am willing to give up my agenda, my preferences, and my schedules for the benefit of someone else. Deference means that my needs are not always my…