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#25: Knowing When To Move
Then the family heads of Judah and Benjamin, and the priests and Levites – everyone whose heart God had moved – prepared to go up and build the house of the Lord in Jerusalem. (Ezra 1:5) Cyrus, king of Persia, was moved by God to allow the exiled Jews to rebuild God’s temple in Jerusalem.…
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#24: The Sting of Sarcasm
Then Job replied: “How you have helped the powerless! How you have saved the arm that is feeble! What advice you have offered to one without wisdom! And what great insight you have displayed!” (Job 26:1-3) Job had endured the criticism and bad advice of his three friends about why God was allowing so much…
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#23: Keeping Each Other Accountable
Seek the Lord, all you humble of the land, you who do what he commands. Seek righteousness, seek humility; perhaps you will be sheltered on the day of the Lord’s anger. (Zephaniah 2:3) According to the Bible, God created the universe as an act of love and enthusiasm. Earth, among the planets and stars, was…
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#22: Avoiding Godless Chatter
Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become more and more ungodly. (2 Timothy 2:16) If we cut off a piece of tail of the lizard, they continue to survive, dropping a piece of dead flesh here and there, then regenerating as they slither along. We get that image in our mind…
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#21: Dealing With Doubletalk
Then they will cry out to the Lord, but he will not answer them. At that time he will hide his face from them because of the evil they have done. (Micah 3:4) When you live up-close and personal, as married couples do, it doesn’t take long to see through each other’s doubletalk. If he…
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#20: Turning Bitterness to Joy
I loathe my very life; therefore I will give free rein to my complaint and speak out in the bitterness of my soul. (Job 10:1) Job knew what it was like to wish he was dead. Sometimes Death seems preferable to facing the wreck that our marriage has become. Many times when we are going…
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#19: Peace At The Table
Better a dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife. (Proverbs 17:1)When a married couple has a meal together, husband and wife often need to share more than a piece of bread. They may have big issues, major decisions or upsetting developments to talk through. Each may be wrestling…
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#18: Warning Signs – Are We In Trouble?
Warning signs of trouble reveal themselves at whatever our stage of life may be. Many people have an idealistic view of marriage and are often “blindsided” by the problems that lead to divorce. Newlyweds are often astounded by the conflict that comes early in their marriage. After the wedding, a period of adjustment sets in,…
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#17: Appreciating Each Other
Then their eyes were opened and they recognized him and he disappeared from their sight. (Luke 24:31) After we have been married for sometime, though we still love each other dearly, the humdrum of day-to-day living lulls us into taking each other for granted. Though we are loving, steady and dependable, but the romance has…
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#16: Tending Our Marriage
What more could have been done for my vineyard than I have done for it? (Isaiah 5:4)In Isaiah 5, God addressed the people of Israel and described himself as the owner of a vineyard and Israel as the vineyard. He had chosen a prime location for his grapevines, nurtured the soil and protected the land…
