Wives, you were called to be INTERCESSORS, not ACCUSERS.

Satan knows the power of your of your gift of intercession – that’s why he instead enrolls you into his character of accusation.

We have to get past the fact that we married underdeveloped men. That part already happened. The difference now, is we’ve contributed to the condition of the man. But God doesn’t desire it to stay that way.

It doesn’t matter if it’s from a controlling mother.
It doesn’t matter if it’s from an absent father.
It doesn’t matter if it’s from a broken family.
It doesn’t matter if it’s from his own sin nature.
It doesn’t matter if it’s from your participation.

The bottom line is God will not heal your husband through accusation, but He can use:
YOUR FAITH
YOUR REPENTANCE
YOUR INTERCESSION
YOUR WORKS/DEEDS

But if Satan can get you to label your spouse as “unhealable” he’s already won half the battle.

So, wives let us desire and strive to be INTERCESSORS and not ACCUSERS in our husbands’ lives.